We are so fucking glad to have you here. I'm CJ Infantino, the founder of Unvoiced. Our mission is simple - to make sure no one grieving ever feels alone.

I spent two decades working as an engineer, fortunate enough to be part of companies in Silicon Valley like Facebook (before it became Meta 😉). I'm grateful for that career and the fulfillment it brought me. However, it wasn't until I lost my wife to cancer that I truly understood what it meant to be called.

Ariana and I had almost two decades together, starting from high school. We built an incredible life with our three children. All we wanted was to grow old together, but that dream was shattered when she was diagnosed with Stage IV Metastatic Breast Cancer on my 30th birthday in 2015. After a nearly six-year battle, she passed away on September 30, 2020, at 11:08 AM, amid a global pandemic.

The moment after her last breath, two things hit me. I suddenly felt completely alone, and I was overwhelmed with the fear that I wasn't strong enough to raise our three children on my own.

Over the following years, after countless conversations that ranged from awkward to downright hurtful, a calling began to emerge within me - to change how grievers and those around them experience grief. The more I embraced this calling, the stronger it grew until it became an undeniable need that compelled me to shift my life's focus and energy toward transforming how our world handles grief.

(Or perhaps, I'm just on a foolish mission to heal others' pain as a way to heal my own.)

And so, Unvoiced was born where we have one unwavering focus - to ensure that no griever ever walks alone on their journey.

We are dedicated to giving a voice to the unvoiced, and we hope you will join us on this journey.

With Love,


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Meet The Team

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Alicia Ellwood


Hi, I’m Alicia! I have a strong background in graphic design, social media management, and content creation. When I’m not working, I enjoy spending time with my family and kids. I love being a part of the Unvoiced team and being able to be a part of CJ’s incredible mission of connection, building community, and supporting our fellow humans!

Matt Cipro


Hey, I'm Matt! Having spent years in the sports and event marketing industry, I’m excited to bring a unique perspective to the Unvoiced team. My experience has taught me how to connect with people and create impactful moments. I enjoy spending time with my family and cheering my kids on at their games. I am grateful to be a part of the Unvoiced team and to help further our mission.

CJ Infantino

Founder · CEO

He already talked way too much about himself. How much does one person need to go on and on about how sad they are that their wife died? We get it. She died. You left your career in tech and started companies around grief.